It’s that day the group decides to get together and hit up a show or a festival. You all have made plans for a few weeks and the posse is back to make some memories happen. Deep inside you know that this is gonna be one of those nights of partying that you all will be talking about because you all came ready to party.
I get these kinds of group outings all the time coming to coat check, I think it’s great. You can’t have enough good times with your crew.
Here’s where it gets interesting, you got the core group and along the way new folks get added by date, new girlfriend/boyfriend status, co-worker , friend of a friend, blind date etc. So the entire group has grown in size and you don’t know how these new people hang in terms of letting lose.
So the night goes on and you are well on your way after a few drinks through the first 5 songs in the concert, everyone is feeling great. Then someone busts out the pills, and or a strong ass blunt and the combination of the whole party package sets all you all in a great party time atmosphere and then…
Cue THE HOT MESS… you have one person in this group going down. It’s so loud that the MAYDAY call is not being heard by the group because people are partying and scattered throughout the concert. And you happen to know that it’s someone newer to the group, you don’t really know. T he million dollar question is DO YOU CLAIM THEM?
All kinds of decision-making skills are required and you’re having fun and loaded.
DAMN GINA what to do?!
Of course, the expectation is to help… or do you send them to the school of LIVE and LEARN the school of hard knox, that’s life?
Claim your friend? or Not. That is the double barrel loaded party question of the night.
I actually had this happen the about a week ago, in a group of 4 people going out. Luckily, the girl needing assistance had a strong backup because THEY CLAIMED her. Her friend was partying but was able to somehow get her coat check ticket and get her coat for her, and the whole group ended up leaving the show right about hitting the middle set.
It was a group decision but none the less they all made the ‘E’ for effort to help their friend.
The not so cool version/ bad date version – The entire group comes drops off their stuff…the person is so trashed but still able to barely, the entire group is doing their own thing and the person that is closest to the fucked up person gets the person’s belongings and says I’ll be right back I’m gonna get this person out and put them in a cab and I’ll be back for the rest of the show. ( true story it was a first or second date and he sent her off wishing her well.) So this was a partial claim but a diss in the same way. Actually, she was lucky that she got the cab service to take her.
There is no true right answer. It boils down to the group, and an individual’s basic moral principles. The group will always have some like minded streams of thoughts and actions. But at the end of the night, it’s also YOUR common sense.
It’s times like these that I am reminded of my friends and the crazy party times we have all had. You will at some point be in the company of a group, a few , or just one person, or alone.
Advice: Claim yourself.. (know how you party; if you’re new to the group figure out how they party and go from there.)
If your alone have your shit straight before you go crazy especially if you’re traveling to some other country where the language is different… that is another level of partying.
Give Karma back if Karma is kind to you… if someone has claimed you, claim someone else too when you can… you can never have too many “GOOD” party points.
It’s April and the festivals are about to take off! There are so many cool events and shows about to pop, bust out that calendar and get your money and go! Life it way too short not to.
SF COMIC CON
PUNK ROCK BOWLING
MUSICAL AND COMEDY ACTS TO SEE
GUNS N’ ROSES
TOO MANY ZOOZ
DITA VON TEESE
- ALSO don’t be snotty or disregard your local casinos… check out your local casino or Indian casinos because there are some entertainment acts that you may want to see and you may be highly surprised at who is on tour.
Also, if you like my coat check blog tell a friend! I am always looking for new people that enjoy slice of life blogs!
UNTIL NEXT TIME,